{"id":1332,"date":"2025-10-04T19:41:08","date_gmt":"2025-10-04T23:41:08","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/truth-faith.org\/4%ef%bc%9a%e4%bb%8e2020%e5%b9%b4%e5%88%b02024%e5%b9%b4%ef%bc%8c%e9%be%9a%e6%98%8e%e9%b9%8f%e7%89%a7%e5%b8%88%e7%9a%84%e5%81%9a%e6%b3%95%e6%9e%81%e5%85%b6%e6%81%b6%e5%8a%a3%ef%bc%8c\/"},"modified":"2025-10-13T13:00:10","modified_gmt":"2025-10-13T17:00:10","slug":"4%ef%bc%9a%e4%bb%8e2020%e5%b9%b4%e5%88%b02024%e5%b9%b4%ef%bc%8c%e9%be%9a%e6%98%8e%e9%b9%8f%e7%89%a7%e5%b8%88%e7%9a%84%e5%81%9a%e6%b3%95%e6%9e%81%e5%85%b6%e6%81%b6%e5%8a%a3%ef%bc%8c","status":"publish","type":"page","link":"https:\/\/truth-faith.org\/en\/%e6%88%91%e5%ae%b6%e8%a2%ab%e5%86%a4%e5%b1%88%e6%af%81%e6%8e%89%e7%9a%84%e8%af%a6%e7%bb%86%e4%ba%8b%e5%ae%9e%e7%bb%8f%e8%bf%87\/4%ef%bc%9a%e4%bb%8e2020%e5%b9%b4%e5%88%b02024%e5%b9%b4%ef%bc%8c%e9%be%9a%e6%98%8e%e9%b9%8f%e7%89%a7%e5%b8%88%e7%9a%84%e5%81%9a%e6%b3%95%e6%9e%81%e5%85%b6%e6%81%b6%e5%8a%a3%ef%bc%8c\/","title":{"rendered":"#4: From 2020 to 2024, Pastor Gong Mingpeng&#8217;s behavior was extremely egregious, forcing me to choose divorce (Part 1)"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p class=\"has-medium-font-size\"><strong>1. My wife consistently violated moral conscience for years, destroying our family. Instead of correcting her, Pastor Gong Mingpeng misled her and apply force in the opposite direction.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>1) From 2020 to 2024, my wife consistently engaged in acts that seriously violated moral conscience and destroyed our family: she wouldn&#8217;t let my mother visit us, controlled the transfer of our money, and denied me the right to know. Whenever I tried to stop her, she threatened separation and divorce. When my mother wanted to come to our spare room for a meal, she smashed the walls and windows, frequently verbally abusing my mother and me, saying, &#8220;You deserve to go to hell.&#8221; She even said to Pastor Gong Mingpeng in person, &#8220;My mother has no self-respect and deserves it.&#8221; When my mother&#8217;s nursing home experienced a series of deaths due to the virus, she smashed things to stop her from staying in our spare room.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>&nbsp;2) On the other hand, my wife reads the Bible and prays with Pastor Gong Mingpeng and a few others every Tuesday, and attends many services at Pastor Gong&#8217;s church. She feels very spiritual and feels she is on the right path.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>3) Over the past few years, Pastor Gong Mingpeng, fully aware of these circumstances, has read the Bible and prayed with my wife every Tuesday, attended small group meetings with her, and spent many Fridays, Saturdays, and Sundays with her. I have also repeatedly explained the situation to Pastor Gong Mingpeng. However, he has neither stopped my wife&#8217;s destructive behavior nor admitted to and corrected his own misleading actions. Instead, he has repeatedly affirmed her &#8220;rapid spiritual progress.&#8221; My wife has been assigned to serve Communion and participate in many services, these let her feel that she is on the &#8220;right&#8221; path. Pastor Gong Mingpeng&#8217;s actions are completely misleading and apply force in the opposite direction\u3002<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-medium-font-size\"><strong>2. My wife&#8217;s behavior of &#8220;controlling money and preventing me from knowing&#8221; and &#8220;not allowing my mother to visit&#8221; should never have continued in the church for several years. It was completely artificially imposed on my family by Pastor Gong Mingpeng.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>1) My wife&#8217;s behavior is a serious violation of moral conscience even among ordinary people, and it should not have continued for several years in the church. Any normal pastor, upon discovering this problem, would promptly point it out and help believers correct it, guiding them in a positive direction. They would not allow believers to continue doing this for several years and destroy their families.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>2) Given that my wife obeys Pastor Gong Mingpeng&#8217;s every word and has a very good relationship with him, reading the Bible and praying with him as they learn to be Jesus&#8217; disciples, it would not have been difficult for him to stop my wife&#8217;s destructive behavior, which seriously violates moral conscience, and guide her in a positive direction.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>3) Given that my wife devotes considerable time and energy to serving and seeking God, it&#8217;s not difficult to get her to correct her mistakes and change for the better:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u2022 From 2018 to 2024, my wife read the Bible and prayed with Pastor Gong Mingpeng and a few others every Tuesday;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u2022 In 2020, as the initiator, she studied spiritual practice with someone from Pastor Gong Mingpeng&#8217;s church over ten times a week. (This spiritual practice was later eliminated by Pastor Gong Mingpeng.)<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u2022 From 2021 to 2024, she studied the Bible and prayed with someone led by Pastor Gong Mingpeng every evening;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u2022 From 2019 to 2025, she helped cook for Pastor Gong Mingpeng&#8217;s student fellowship on Fridays and participated in Sunday service on Sundays.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>4) If my wife had followed a legitimate senior pastor instead of Pastor Gong Mingpeng, she would have changed for the better long ago. She would never have continued for years in such a deeply immoral and family-destroying way. This destructive behavior of my wife, which has persisted for years, is entirely due to Pastor Gong&#8217;s deliberate failure to guide her in a positive direction and his artificial imposition on my family.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-medium-font-size\"><strong>3. Pastor Gong Mingpeng exploited my wife&#8217;s persistent problems and behaviors, which should never have occurred in a church, to cause disasters to &#8220;automatically&#8221; occur in my family, forcing my family into repeated separation and divorce.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>1) (As mentioned above) My wife&#8217;s behavior of &#8220;not allowing my mother to visit us,&#8221; &#8220;controlling our finances and preventing me from knowing,&#8221; and &#8220;constantly telling my mother and me that we should go to hell&#8221; should never have persisted in a church for several years. They were completely artificially placed in my family by Pastor Gong Mingpeng. Pastor Gong Mingpeng exploited my wife&#8217;s persistent behavior and problems, which should never have occurred in a church, to force my family into repeated separation and divorce.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>2) On the one hand, Pastor Gong Mingpeng allowed my wife&#8217;s destructive behavior to &#8220;automatically&#8221; occur in my family; on the other hand, he projected a positive attitude toward my wife, causing her to feel validated and not to feel that she had seriously violated her moral conscience. Pastor Gong Mingpeng&#8217;s behavior completely violates human moral conscience. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>3) The reason behind his actions is obvious: If he wanted to correct my wife&#8217;s misconduct, he would have to first admit his own mistakes in confusing right and wrong and misleading my wife. This would expose his moral flaw: &#8220;He knew all along that he had caused this misconception and misleading, yet refused to admit or correct it, ultimately destroying my family.&#8221; Therefore, he allowed it to happen and failed to correct it, appearing to have nothing to do with it.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-medium-font-size\"><strong>4. The reason behind Pastor Gong Mingpeng&#8217;s failure to stop my wife&#8217;s extreme misconduct regarding money and my mother: He wanted to prevent his own problems from being exposed.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>1) The reason behind not stopping my wife from not allowing my mother to come to our home:<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u2022 During counseling in 2017, Pastor Gong Mingpeng misled my wife by explaining the reasoning behind moving my mother out of our home. In the years that followed, he refused to admit his mistake or correct it, continuing to mislead my wife with a spiritual facade. As a result, my wife was led step by step by Pastor Gong Mingpeng to this point, from which there was no turning back. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u2022 If he truly wanted to address my wife&#8217;s misguided behavior toward my mother, he would have to &#8220;first&#8221; acknowledge his mistake in distorting right and wrong during counseling in 2017 and in his subsequent misleading of my wife. This would expose his &#8220;moral&#8221; flaw: he knew he had caused this misleading and destructive behavior, but for the sake of his &#8220;spiritual&#8221; reputation, he refused to admit his mistake, continued to mislead my wife, and ultimately destroyed my family.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u2022 To prevent his problems from being exposed, he deliberately did not stop my wife&#8217;s extremely wrong behavior toward my mother, appearing to have nothing to do with it.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>2) The reason behind not stopping &#8220;my wife&#8217;s control of money and her inability to inform me&#8221;:<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u2022 The &#8220;starting point&#8221; where my wife felt comfortable controlling money and not letting me know was one of the destructive consequences of Pastor Gong Mingpeng&#8217;s misleading, misleading, and erroneous behavior during counseling in 2017. \u2022 While my wife continued to do this for several years, Pastor Gong Mingpeng conveyed affirmation of her &#8220;spiritual progress,&#8221; leading her to not feel the need to stop controlling money. Once our family relationship was completely destroyed, she no longer wanted to stop.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u2022 If he truly wanted to address my wife&#8217;s money control issue, he would have to &#8220;first&#8221; admit that he knew he was causing misleading and destruction, yet he refused to admit his mistake and continued to mislead my wife. This would also expose his &#8220;false spirituality&#8221; and &#8220;moral issues&#8221; that destroyed our family by knowing he was wrong but refusing to admit or correct it.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u2022 To prevent his problems from being exposed, he deliberately didn&#8217;t address my wife&#8217;s money control and denied me the right to know, presenting an attitude that it had nothing to do with him.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-medium-font-size\"><strong>5. Other examples of Pastor Gong Mingpeng deliberately misleading, exerting pressure in the opposite direction, and causing damage:<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>1) Example 1:<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>In 2020, my wife felt she was on the &#8220;right&#8221; path and was unwaveringly determined to divorce. When she discussed remarrying after the divorce, she said, &#8220;Although Pastor Gong Mingpeng told her to &#8216;continue do right thing&#8217; , but she would remarry.&#8221;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>While my wife was engaging in activities that seriously violated moral conscience and were wrong from beginning to end, Pastor Gong Mingpeng used the phrase &#8221; continue do right thing,&#8221;<em> (meaning- translate), <\/em>conveying to her the impression that she was doing well but needed to persevere.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Pastor Gong Mingpeng completely deliberately misled my wife and exerted pressure in the opposite direction regarding the divorce in my family.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>2) Example 2:<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>I had been tolerant, hoping my wife would return and preserve our family. During an argument in 2020, I told my wife, &#8220;I&#8217;ve tolerated you for so long time because I wanted you to return.&#8221;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>My wife responded, &#8220;Who&#8217;s waiting for who to return?&#8221; Pastor Gong Mingpeng always said that once you&#8217;ve hit your head outside, you&#8217;ll know to turn back.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Pastor Gong Mingpeng&#8217;s efforts to resolve the issue in my home were completely misleading and apply force in the opposite direction.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>3) Example Three:<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>In 2021, the nursing home where my mother lived saw a series of deaths due to the virus. My mother wanted to take shelter in our empty house, but my wife refused, chopping at the walls and smashing things.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Pastor Gong Mingpeng knew all about this, but he didn&#8217;t stop her extreme behavior toward my mother, nor did he tell her that treating the elderly in our family this way was worse than being an unbeliever. Instead, he maintained a close relationship with my wife, reading the Bible and praying with her several times a week, and arranging numerous services, which made my wife feel validated and on the &#8220;right&#8221; path. Pastor Gong Mingpeng&#8217;s actions were completely misleading.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>When my wife allowed someone from Pastor Gong Mingpeng&#8217;s missionary system to stay there for several months for free, Pastor Gong Mingpeng showered her with praise and affirmation, causing my wife to feel quite spiritual.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Pastor Gong Mingpeng&#8217;s actions were completely misleading. What he should have told my wife was this: He&#8217;s not allowing the elderly to stay at home, treating them so badly, while letting &#8220;missionaries&#8221; stay for free. This isn&#8217;t spiritual; it&#8217;s worse than unbelievers.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>4) Example 4:<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>In 2024, my wife told a friend who came to our house very seriously that she had no mistake with my mother&#8217;s affairs, no mistake with the money, and  Pastor Gong Mingpeng had no mistake with my family&#8217;s  affairs.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>I told my wife that Pastor Gong Mingpeng had told other pastors that what she did would be hard to give an account before God . He also told the members of his church&#8217;s conflict resolution group that he couldn&#8217;t change my wife and couldn&#8217;t do anything about it.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>My wife said, &#8220;Pastor Gong Mingpeng absolutely couldn&#8217;t say that.&#8221;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Pastor Gong Mingpeng was completely deceiving and misleading her, saying one thing to my wife&#8217;s face and another behind her back.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>5) Example 5:<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>My wife took the initiative to ask me to bring a pastor she really liked to live in our house for a few months. That pastor&#8217;s experiences in the Holy Spirit and the Bible lessons she preached had a very positive impact on my wife. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Pastor Gong Mingpeng, however, took advantage of my wife&#8217;s unfounded speculation (my wife thought the man she was referring to as God&#8217;s chosen partner was me). Without my knowledge and consent, Pastor Gong and my wife conspired to expel that pastor from our home.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>The real reason: Many people in Pastor Gong Mingpeng&#8217;s church attended this pastor&#8217;s on-line meetings and listened to her sermons, and he had a personal grudge against her, which led him to do so.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>6) Example 6:<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>In 2020, a pastor recommended Singing Waters Ministries for marriage counseling and healing, and my wife was willing to try it.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>When my wife sought Pastor Gong&#8217;s advice, he said he wasn&#8217;t familiar with the organization, which led to my wife not attending.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>In reality, Pastor Gong and the pastors around him knew it was an excellent marriage counseling and healing organization. However, because a pastor who was a strong opponent of Pastor Gong held meetings there, he deliberately denied any knowledge of the organization. This deprived us of this opportunity.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>7) Example 7:<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>In 2021, my wife asked Pastor Gong Mingpeng if I was &#8220;not putting my family&#8217;s interests first&#8221; and instead prioritizing my mother&#8217;s interests over whole family.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>My wife initially expected Pastor Gong Mingpeng to support her statement, as his erroneous assertion that &#8220;I don&#8217;t prioritize the marital relationship&#8221; had been misleading her.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>But Pastor Gong Mingpeng didn&#8217;t say &#8220;yes&#8221; or &#8220;no,&#8221; instead saying, &#8220;You know it in your heart.&#8221;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Pastor Gong Mingpeng fully understood that this was a misleading issue stemming from his 2017 counseling, where he misrepresented right and wrong. He subsequently refused to acknowledge or correct his mistake, and continued to mislead my wife, both intentionally and unintentionally. Pastor Gong Mingpeng should have corrected this long ago, but he used these so-called &#8220;language tactics&#8221; to perpetuate this misleading behavior.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>8) Example 8:<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>My wife often accused me of badmouthing her and sharing family matters with others, leading to arguments between us. Pastor Gong Mingpeng was fully aware of my wife&#8217;s &#8220;heartache&#8221; on this point. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>In 2021, during a conversation to resolve a problem, on an unrelated topic, Pastor Gong Mingpeng said to me :&#8221;You told other pastor about my doing again, and some pastor asked me about it.&#8221;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Pastor Gong Mingpeng&#8217;s actions were completely deliberate attempts to sow discord in my wife.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>9) Example 9:<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>In 2023, I told my wife that another marriage counselor said that &#8220;honoring parents&#8221; and &#8220;the husband-wife relationship first&#8221; are both paramount and not contradictory. My wife then said that person was definitely wrong and that she should confront them.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>If Pastor Gong had acknowledged and corrected the issue he had caused during his counseling, my wife would not have been misled by him on this point, and we would not have been constantly arguing over it, leaving the resulting issues unresolved and our relationship deteriorating.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>10) Example 10:<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>From 2006 to 2014, I served as a small group leader at my former church, and my wife always helped me serve in the monthly small group meetings held at my home. My wife and my mother had a very good relationship, as everyone can testify. As late as 2018, she often said that she felt God was her Father in Heaven and that she felt loved.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>But starting in 2020, my wife began to curse my mother and me, saying that we should go to hell, that we had ruined her life, and that she wouldn&#8217;t let my mother come to our home. She harbored a deep hatred for us.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>If Pastor Gong Mingpeng had acknowledged his mistakes in misleading my wife during counseling and subsequently misled her, and had apologized to her, my wife would have realized that it was Pastor Gong Mingpeng who had misled her and misled her. It was she who had been engaging in serious immoral practices that had wronged my mother. She wouldn&#8217;t have been misled to this point, unable to turn back.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-medium-font-size\"><strong>6. Pastor Gong Mingpeng deliberately created an &#8220;external environment&#8221; that trapped my family. No matter how much I tolerated or tried, it was useless.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>1) From 2020 to 2024, my wife continued to engage in acts that seriously violated moral conscience and destroyed our family (as described above).<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>2) If I stopped my wife&#8217;s destructive behavior, our family would have ended in separation and divorce. Pastor Gong Mingpeng continued to read the Bible and pray with my wife every week, expressing his affirmation, praising her for her rapid spiritual progress, and arranging services such as the Holy Communion. My wife felt affirmed by Pastor Gong and felt very spiritual.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>3) If I tolerated, my family would continue to be destroyed by my wife&#8217;s destructive behavior. Pastor Gong Mingpeng continued to read the Bible and pray with my wife every week, expressing his affirmation, praising her for her rapid spiritual progress, and arranging services such as the Holy Communion. My wife felt affirmed by Pastor Gong and felt very spiritual.\u00a0but my family be destroyed.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>4) Pastor Gong Mingpeng fully understood my family\u2019s situation, yet he did this deliberately to create an \u201cexternal environment\u201d that would suffocate my family. No matter how tolerant and hard I tried, it was useless, our family will be in result of destroyed.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-medium-font-size\"><strong>7. Pastor Gong Mingpeng and my wife formed a &#8220;community of interests&#8221; to lie and cover up the truth, making it impossible to resolve our family&#8217;s problems.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>1) The &#8220;starting point&#8221; of my family&#8217;s confusion of right and wrong and the injustice it suffered was Pastor Gong Mingpeng. My wife was misled step by step by him to a point where she seriously violated moral conscience and destroyed our family. There was no turning back, yet she believed she was following him on a spiritual path.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>2) Whether resolving my wife&#8217;s problems or resolving our family&#8217;s problems, Pastor Gong Mingpeng must acknowledge his mistakes in misleading my wife.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>3) To cover up his own involvement, Pastor Gong Mingpeng refused to admit his mistakes. Because my wife, misled by him to the point of violating her moral conscience, also refused to admit her mistakes, they formed a &#8220;community of interests,&#8221; colluding to cover up their mistakes and refusing to admit their mistakes. This has prevented my family from finding a solution, making our problems impossible to resolve.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-medium-font-size\"><strong>8. Pastor Gong Mingpeng and my wife colluded in lies to cover up the truth and rationalize their actions.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>1) My wife told others that Pastor Gong Mingpeng had nothing to do with my family&#8217;s problems and that he had no problem with them. My wife rationalized their actions.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>2) When Pastor Gong Mingpeng and my wife were together or at his church, he praised her for her rapid spiritual progress, used his close personal relationship with her to convey positive attitudes, arranged Sunday services and served Holy Communion, and used his spiritual presence and reputation to rationalize her actions.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>3) When other pastors inquired about my family&#8217;s affairs, Pastor Gong Mingpeng said that it would be difficult for my wife to answer to God, and that he could not change her or do anything. Pastor Gong Mingpeng used a two-faced approach to conceal his own problems and rationalize his actions.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>4) In this way, they colluded in lies to cover up the truth and rationalize their actions.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-medium-font-size\"><strong>9. My family has always had a path to resolve the issue, but Pastor Gong Mingpeng deliberately avoided this path and blocked it.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>1) The first step in resolving the issue is for Pastor Gong Mingpeng to first admit his mistake of misleading my wife during his counseling session in 2017 and for misleading her in the years that followed. He then used the &#8220;right&#8221; approach to correct the areas where he misled her. Only then would my wife be able to admit her mistakes and stop wrong doing.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>2) After clearing up these misleading and misleading situations, my wife and I returned to true principles and a normal external environment and then resolved our marital issues. Whoever was at fault should admit and correct their mistakes, and working together to restore our family would have made resolving our issues easy.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>3) However, Pastor Gong Mingpeng deliberately avoided this path to resolution. He misled and manipulated my wife, colluding with her to lie and cover up the truth. He refused to admit his mistakes and instead, operated in the opposite direction, blocking this path. This has left my wife and I locked in a struggle, unable to resolve our issues, and our entire family has been destroyed.\u00a0<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>4) The underlying reason is obvious: if he admitted his mistake and corrected it, it would expose the &#8220;moral issue&#8221; of &#8220;he knew he was wrong long ago, yet refused to admit it or correct it, and ended up destroying my family.&#8221;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-medium-font-size\"><strong>10. Pastor Gong Mingpeng deliberately failed to guide my wife in a positive direction, turning my tolerance and efforts into abuse.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>1) My wife and I both work for the family company I founded. I personally developed the company, its products, and its sales channels. I could have easily stopped my wife from continuously transferring company funds to her own bank account.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>2) But if I stopped her, she would file for separation and divorce. My children were already deeply traumatized, and I didn&#8217;t want a divorce to occur. I also didn&#8217;t want my family to be destroyed by Pastor Gong Mingpeng and my wife&#8217;s combined injustice. Therefore, I didn&#8217;t firmly stop my wife&#8217;s behavior. She continued to transfer company funds to her own bank account, financially controlling me.\u00a0<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>3) Given my tolerance and my wife&#8217;s reckless behavior (as mentioned above), if my wife had followed any other normal pastor, he would have clearly and logically stopped her destructive behavior and guided her in a positive direction.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>4) However, despite my wife&#8217;s obedience to Pastor Gong&#8217;s words, he deliberately refused to guide her in a positive direction. Instead, he applied force in the opposite direction and deliberately misled her, making her feel validated and spiritual. This turned all my tolerance and efforts into &#8220;masochism,&#8221; allowing my wife to continue to destroy our family with her seriously reckless behavior for several years.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-medium-font-size\"><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>1. My wife consistently violated moral conscience for years, destroying our family. 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